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Tired of Teens

I love my kids. Really. But today, I fully admit that I am tired of parenting teenagers.

Momma said there'd be days like this. No one ever said it was gonna be easy. We've been there and done this five times.

I'm still tired.

I just want to run away screaming. I don't want to fight over dirty dishes on the floor. I don't want to have to ask the same thing over and over, and then get yelled at: "I know!" even though it hasn't gotten done. I want to leave when I'm ready to leave, without having to prompt any teens, "We're leaving in 10 minutes." "We're leaving in 5 minutes." "We're leaving now."......"I told  you we were leaving!!!!"

"I didn't hear you."

Ugh.

There is not enough Calgon to take me away.

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